You have chosen the Lovers and the 9 of Pentacles.The Lovers card tells us that you are a person that likes to communicate and that you have a physical attraction towards the way that you earn your material security. Unfortunately your partner feels that you leave them out for the obstacle in the relationship is to do with matters of finance. The temptation you have to work too hard is making the other person feel that you do not spend enough quality time within the relationship. The 9 of Pentacles tells us that you are a person who works towards the luxury of fulfilling their personal dreams and wishes. You are a person who likes abundance and wealth. You're quite a lucrative character, nice things are very important to you and you have extremely good personal taste. Everything you do when it comes to matters of money is very fertile. Your money works well for you. You are someone who works in solitude and you do that best. Working with others is not for you. You are someone who is financially independent relying on no one to look after you or provide for you. You've earned the money you've got in solitude. You're probably someone who would prefer to be in their own company because you are always putting work before relationships and you do not suffer fools gladly. Because of this you spoil yourself frequently and you are quite decadent. You're a person who has class and are slightly reserved but if you do want a relationship you must communicate with the other person. They need to know that they are important in your every day as much as your work is. Lack of communication is what will get your relationship into serious trouble. By working too hard you sometimes do not make enough time to communicate with the ones you love. This can be simple matters of messages, written or verbal that make these people feel that they're included and feel appreciated within your life. They're probably not trying to ask you to do less, indeed you would not do that, but they just want to feel that they know what is going on and what to expect rather than the unexpected of you announcing that you will not be around. This is what leads to the arguments. By keeping the people informed that you love and care about particularly your relationship, the person has a deeper understanding and respect for your time and your circumstances for your material security.