You have chosen the High Priestess and the 3 of Swords.The High Priestess is ruled by the moon which affects your mood and your emotions and brings about some important changes particularly at the ages of 20, 40 and 60 years of age. Your emotional outlook will go through some rapid changes at those points. There is a secret and a fate to be revealed to you. This is a very psychic card, a card of the future where things will not be revealed until you are ready to listen. You definitely experience some sadness and heartbreak and a past may haunt you. This situation is coming to a conclusion but it's not for the first time so you do feel as if there's nowhere to turn. 3 is the card of creation as well as heartbreak and shows that you can move forwards providing you want to. You need to express your feelings in a way that you feel decent and with integrity. You sometimes fear that you can be selfish or demanding and hide your emotions. It's important with the right partner to let them know exactly how you feel, you need the emotional support of people around you. Now this can come from a group, not just in a personal or partnership. You must not sacrifice your personal happiness just to keep a happy medium and sometimes you are too ethical and proud to ask others for their help or support. Everyone needs the ability to feel connected with the past and responsible to the present and we all need to give and receive some sort of physical affection. There's a need for safety and comfort when it comes to the High Priestess and this can come out in different ways. This can be provided for you and satisfy you by a loving family, a partnership or even a direct involvement with others when it comes to matters of work. For this is equally a valid source of emotional and physical security. Make sure that you have the ability to value your physical and emotional well-being even though it means that you may be seen as vulnerable or dependent. For by doing so, you will avoid the pain and suffering alone. You're not manipulating or controlling anybody, it is simply the feelings and needs of everybody when it comes to life.